Evaluate Your Boundaries

Our Divine Download for January 17, 2025 is Boundary from the Healing the Inner Child Oracle. Boundaries are never about other people. They are strictly, soley, unapologetically about us and what we need, what we will and will not tolerate and what does and does not work for us. That's it. Louder for those in the back: Boundaries are NEVER about other people! Boundaries may result from the effects of other people's choices, but they are not about influencing other people or changing their behavior. They are about us and the choices that we make when certain behaviors arise. The yin yang image on this card is absolute perfection because boundaries are black and white when they are accurately framed by our choices: "if they do that, I choose this;" when they do this, I will not do that;" etc. The black and white boundaries that we develop and enforce for ourselves which shape our choices, behavior, and reactions (or lack there of) lead us to balance, which is also beautifully represented by the yin yang symbol. If you are feeling out of balance in your life in any way, it may be a sign that you need to work on identifying and implementing some boundaries for yourself with certain people or within certain situations. Sit with yourself and be willing to be candid about why you feel out of balance, about what is causing you to feel out of balance. Chances are it is because someone or something is not currently in alignment with your energy and the trajectory of your life. And that's okay. That is the beauty of our free - will choice, that is the beauty of boundaries. When you exercise boundaries correctly, you do not ever have to inform other people that you have "placed a boundary" within a situation or dynamic. You simply do so. No explanation is required. No apology is needed. You only have one life to live and a finite amount of time within that life. Don't waste it by not placing appropriate and necessary boundaries around anything that is causing your to feel out of balance.

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