Our Divine Download for December 28, 2021 is Whom Do You Need to Forgive from the Magical Messages With the Fairies Oracle Cards. Ooooooohhhhhhhhhhh boy. We've been nailed with diet, exercise, and now forgiveness over the past few days - seemingly we have our marching orders. The fairies remind us "As you release old anger or resentment, you will find that your wishes will come true." So often when it comes to forgiveness, we make the mistake of believing that it is about the other person, the one who hurt or wronged us. But, in actuality, it is all about us. This card is our alert that we are experiencing blocks with our energy, and possibly within our lives, which are directly tied to the energy of forgiveness. We are holding onto the actions of another or others to such an extent and with such an iron fist that it is actually harming us. When we forgive, it is a type of release of energy. It isn't about absolving others of hurtful or harmful actions, it is about freeing ourselves from the associated anger, hurt, sadness, and distrust that result from their actions. It isn't about accepting the unacceptable behavior of others, it is about releasing ourselves from the responsibility of policing others' behavior. Very simply put, it is about us and not them. Always. When we choose to forgive, we are setting down the weight of non-forgiveness that we have been carrying around because we want to feel lighter, freer, better. What are you carrying that isn't yours? What can you set down that isn't about you? What are you willing to let go of? Keep in mind too, that sometimes who we need to forgive is ourselves. When we hold ourselves up to impossible standards and set up a dynamic where we punish ourselves for not meeting them, when we take responsibility and blame for the actions of others, we are denying ourselves the energy of forgiveness and holding things that are not ours in our heart chakra space which can contaminate and poison our energy. Forgiveness of self and others is a direct path to freedom.
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